I wish I was better at writing on a consistent basis. I greatly enjoy writing and it is very freeing for me. Lately I’ve been trying to make a lot of changes to my life, but these changes have been absorbing a lot of the energy I have.
However, I need to remember how important that writing is to me. It helps me free my mind to be creative and to process all the things going on in my life.
There has been a ton going on in my life that I want to share, but I’m not certain on if one post will do it justice.
I have entered a new relationship with a wonderful woman. It is a God honoring relationship and I’m honestly surprised by how easy it is to follows God’s will for a relationship if you are intentional on it.
God has been using that relationship as a catalyst for a lot of changes in my life. I am now attending church again regularly. I had been looking for a church, but not looking with any fervor. My life had been super busy, but only with unimportant things. I was just existing.
I started looking in earnest shortly after I met her. She is such an amazing godly woman, and I knew that if I really wanted a relationship with her that would last, I would need to start being serious about my walk with the Lord again.
For those of you who don’t know I’ve been separated and divorced from my ex-wife for over 4 years now. She had committed adultery, but she also had taken off with the kids across the country to her lover’s place.
I grew closer to God than I had ever been during the time they were missing. However, over the last 4 years I have been working to raise my kids by myself. After moving back, I didn’t find a church and started to do things on my own. Slowly, I drifted away from the importance of finding a church family. I would go once or twice a month to find a church, but it hadn’t been a priority for me.
Anyhow, I started checking out churches around here, and was pleasantly surprised when I went to the church she attends. It was amazing, and I have been attending it since. I really enjoy studying under the lead pastor.
As I’ve come back into the church God has really convicted me of the debt that I have accrued. Even more so than the debt, is all the junk that I have. All the unnecessary things I have picked up. To that end, I have been working on becoming more minimalistic, and working diligently to get out of debt at the same time.
In the last 30 days, I have managed to pay off over $3000 in debt. Some of that was from reducing funds I have in savings, others were from the sale or return of items I could get the money back for.
One of the most difficult things for me to part with was my Nintendo Switch. I loved the system and Breath of the Wild was/is an amazing game. However, it isn’t where my heart needs to be. I sold it because I was too attached to it.